Friday, March 16, 2012

Mar. 16, 2012 Friday: 3rd week of Lent




A personal assistant built into the latest iPhone is wowing owners with its ability to answer odd questions — it even knows the meaning of life.
The new Siri feature was designed to respond to spoken requests for information such as the location of the nearest cinema.
But gadget-lovers have discovered that its range of expertise is actually far wider.
When one user asked about life's meaning, he was informed: "All evidence to date suggests it's chocolate."

Another user asked: "Why am I here?" The system replied: "I don't know. Frankly, I've wondered that myself."

But alas, digital assistant can only reply to such profound question with amusing, but trivial answers.

What is the meaning of life?
You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength. The second is this: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.

Thursday, March 15, 2012

Mar. 15, 2012 Thursday: 3rd week of Lent

An Honest Being-With


Being with a friend in great pain is not easy. It makes us uncomfortable. We do not know what to do or what to say, and we worry about how to respond to what we hear. Our temptation is to say things that come more out of our own fear than out of our care for the person in pain. Sometimes we say things like "Well, you're doing a lot better than yesterday," or "You will soon be your old self again," or "I'm sure you will get over this." But often we know that what we're saying is not true, and our friends know it too.

We do not have to play games with each other. We can simply say: "I am your friend, I am happy to be with you." We can say that in words or with touch or with loving silence. Sometimes it is good to say: "You don't have to talk. Just close your eyes. I am here with you, thinking of you, praying for you, loving you."
-Fr. Henri Nouwen

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Mar. 14, 2012 Wednesday: 3rd Week of Lent

Bringing the Spirit Through Leaving
It is often in our absence that the Spirit of God manifests itself.  When Jesus left his disciples he said:  "It is for your own good that I am going, because unless I go, the Paraclete [the Spirit] will not come to you.  However, when the Spirit of truth comes he will lead you to the complete truth"  (John 16: 7;13).  It was only in Jesus' absence that his friends discovered the full meaning of his presence.  It was only in his absence that they completely understood his words and experienced full communion with him; and it was only in his absence that they could gather in a community of faith, hope, and love.

When we claim for ourselves that we come to our friends in the Name of Jesus - that through us Jesus becomes present to them - we can trust that our leaving will also bring them the Spirit of Jesus.  Thus, not only our presence but also our absence becomes a gift to others.
- Fr. Henri Nouwen

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Mar. 13, 2012 Tuesday: Divine Mercy Mass

These days, it is not too difficult to let others know what you are doing and what you are feeling. Thanks to Twitter and Facebook, you can let the whole world know, literally and instantaneously, the things that you are pondering or doing. I know of a parishioner of uses Twitter account to let her family and friends know daily when she is in Walmart shopping, when she is getting her hair done, and when she is picking up her kids from school. This may be TMI (too much information) for most of us. I have come to appreciate this technology, though. For example, thanks to Twitter and Facebook, we are able to keep up with those who are in the hospital or those who live out of state.
The great popularity of these internet services reveals a truth; that we have an innate desire to look somewhere or for someone to help us, to heal us, and to love us. When we are overwhelmed, when we feel that we are not loved, when we feel like we have nowhere to turn, and when we feel that we do not belong in this world, to where or to whom do we turn to? We learn that even the World Wide Web cannot come to our help when we desire to be helped, healed, and loved. We only need to turn to Our Lord. Only then will we know love and peace. Our Lord told St.Faustina,
“Poor soul, I see that you suffer much and that you do not have even
the strength to converse with me. So I will speak to you. Even though
your sufferings were very great, do not lose heart or give in to
despondency. Tell me about everything, be sincere in dealing with Me,
reveal all the wounds of your heart. I will heal them, and your
suffering will become a source of your sanctification…I have remained
on earth to comfort your aching heart and to fortify your soul, so
that you will not falter on your way. You say that a dense darkness is
obscuring your mind. But why, at such times, do you not come to Me,
the light who can in an instant pour into your soul more understanding
about holiness than can be found in any books...My child, make the
resolution never to rely on people. Entrust yourself completely to My
will…”

Let us remember that during this season of Lent we empty ourselves through prayer, fasting and almsgiving to make room for the Father’s love. When we are filled with His love, we will love as He loves and then treat others with the compassion that He deals with us.  Only then, just as St Faustina, we will rely on Him.

Monday, March 12, 2012

Mar. 12, 2012 Monday: 3rd Week of Lent

The Spirit of Jesus Listening in us


Listening in the spiritual life is much more than a psychological strategy to help others discover themselves. In the spiritual life the listener is not the ego, which would like to speak but is trained to restrain itself, but the Spirit of God within us. When we are baptised in the Spirit - that is, when we have received the Spirit of Jesus as the breath of God breathing within us - that Spirit creates in us a sacred space where the other can be received and listened to. The Spirit of Jesus prays in us and listens in us to all who come to us with their sufferings and pains.

When we dare to fully trust in the power of God's Spirit listening in us, we will see true healing occur.
-Fr. Henri Nouwen

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Mar. 11, 2012: 3rd Sunday of Lent



After celebrating daily mass at St. Francis Church, I drove toward Ascension Church and was at the intersection by the pharmacy waiting for the light to turn. I felt my car vibrate and I knew that it was not because my car was stalling. I looked over to the right, and a thumping bass sound was coming out of the car next to mine. I chuckled inside because I recalled the sign in Donaldsonville that notifies all that by a city ordinance, loud music will result in a fine of $100. As I drove to the church, I remembered the times when I had the music of my favorite rock group blaring in my car with windows down, hoping others would also notice my cool taste in music. As I drove into the parking lot of Ascension Church, the school students were arriving and I noticed that a couple of young ladies were dancing in their car with their windows rolled up and music volume turned up. Coach, who patrols the parking lot every morning, stopped by the car and tapped on the window. No, they were not given a $100 fine, but they were politely asked to hurry to their classes.


Do you remember your younger days when you were glued to your LP player, 8-Track player, or cassette player? We certainly spent a lot of time listening to music. These days, though, I notice a different trend among the young and the not so young. Instead of our ears being constantly preoccupied, our eyes are fixed on a screen. One newspaper photo showed a couple sitting down for breakfast, booth with iPads in their hands.  It appeared as if they were a couple of strangers sitting in a cafĂ© preoccupied with their screens. Unfortunately, this is a scene repeated everywhere. While at a mall food court, I observed three teenagers sitting on a table, each with his IPhone, seldom speaking to each other. By the way, this same mall only a few weeks ago had several hundred young men lined up early in the morning, vying for a particular brand of sneakers. What we line up for and what we are glued to is where our treasure is. Put in a scriptural way, “For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.” (Matt 6:21)


This begs the question, then, what is it that we worship? We use the word ‘worship’ typically in the context of religion or church. What is worship? It is reverent honor, admiration, or devotion to an object of esteem. Does it matter what we honor, admire, or what we are devoted to? I heard a successful businessman give his testimony about his faith journey. During one period of his life, he was a multi-millionaire who was a semi-professional body builder. He said that if he were not worrying about his latest real estate deals, his restaurants, or new financial venture, he would be in the gym working out for the next body building competition. He said, “I worshipped my body, and the mirror was my best friend.” Then one day, his wife told him that she was leaving the marriage. He did not have a clue that he had neglected his wife all the while he paid extravagant devotion to his money and his body. He said his order of worship was his money, his body, his wife, and God and that until his wife wanted a separation, that he had not realized that the order was completely wrong, and it disordered the very core of his life. Don’t we also have objects of esteem that overly preoccupy us, that cause significant worry in our life and where we spend our money, our time, and our energy? If we are humble and honest, don’t we have something or someone to whom we have excessive devotion or admiration?


Why did God give us the first three commandments of the Ten Commandments dedicated to worshipping Him alone? It is because of our pride that we tend to put other things ahead of Him. Take our Sundays for example; even this priest is shopping on Sundays at Walmart thinking it is like another Saturday. How many of the sporting events are now scheduled on Sundays? St. Paul said that our body is the Temple of the Holy Spirit where Heavenly Father alone is worshipped. If Jesus were to enter this temple of ours, what would He find? Would He find, like in our Gospel, a marketplace? Would Jesus find in us things to overturn and chase out of the temple?


 Jesus tells us that we must be single-minded; our heart must be centered on the Father. We are blind and do not even realize that we worship false gods, and therefore we are not free—we are not free to worship the Father. The reason why Heavenly Father asks us to His House every day is so that we might see the great love He bestows on us. As much love and devotion that we place on other things, there is no greater love that fulfills us and transforms us than that which Jesus poured out for us on the Cross. Whereas we are preoccupied with avoiding suffering, Jesus reminds us how much he suffered for us, out of love for us. Will we suffer to help others learn about Our Lord? I wish that when I was younger that I had spent more time thinking about how to please God than growing my hair long like the rock star I idolized, and then I probably would not have damaged my eardrum.

".....Oh Jesus, I see You greater than all the treasures of the earth. Yes, my sweetest God, my most lovable Jesus: to my eyes You are greater than the greatest treasures on earth. How gladly I would unite with Your Angels! How gladly I would be consumed in Your praises! How gladly I would remain always before You!But what do I say when I speak of You? ... I say what I can, never what I ought.And if I do not know how ... will I stay silent? No, because my Jesus must be loved, honored by everyone! .. , Do not look at what I say with my mind, look inside of me.", - St. Gemma Galgani